And I think he liked Willow all right, but no urge to be best friends. He seemed to mostly find Anya's obsession with sex annoying *g* I always thought Giles reminded Spike too much of his own nerdy past, and he liked to dismiss Giles because of that. Tabula Rasa with the "English with that nancyboy accent" Lol

The one person who I think he did care about and was soundly rejected by, was Dawn in Beneath You. Other than that, I don't feel any of the scoobies mattered to him particularly